Milestones

Dear Readers,

There are dates of significant historical events that, I suppose, will never be expunged from my  mind:

October 31, 1517:

December 7, 1941:

November 22, 1963:

I’m leaving the “events” blank, in hopes that An Alert Reader will fill in those blanks!

There is one date, however, that is mine alone to remember.  It is significant and burned into my memory.  However, rest assured: I do not expect any greeting cards, phone calls, or gifts.

The date is June 2, 2009 and I just celebrated the Three-Year Milestone, past my original Breast Cancer Diagnosis.

The Third Year is significant because my oncologist, Dr. Robert Carroll, told me, after my mastectomy, that my Breast Cancer was very aggressive.  Without chemotherapy, he said, I had a 41% risk of having a recurrence, within two years of the diagnosis.  Within the ensuing two years after a possible recurrence, I would be . . . . well . . . “gone.”  [Even oncologists, it appears, revert to euphemisms.]

I dislike sounding sentimental.  Yet, in all honesty, what a gift are these “extra” years of life!

I do not mind telling you that I will celebrate another significant milestone this year:  I will soon achieve 60 years of age.

I do not expect any greeting cards, phone calls, or gifts for this milestone, either.

However, please have the goodness to be happy for me!  I consider my next birthday to be neither tragic nor humorous.  The gift of 60 years of life on this earth, to enjoy my family and friends:  What a rich blessing!

You may complain about your age, your silver hair, and your wrinkles. But you probably should not complain around me.

It is all a matter of perspective.  And, from where I sit, the prospect of aging is a very bright one, indeed.

Coram Deo,

Margot

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4 responses to “Milestones

  1. “You may complain about your age, your silver hair, and your wrinkles. But you probably should not complain around me.
    It is all a matter of perspective. And, from where I sit, the prospect of aging is a very bright one, indeed.”

    I love this Margot!

  2. Debbie Trostle

    The Reformation, Pearl Harbor, and the JFK assassination ( I confess I had to research this date).

    I am reminded as I watch myself age that the alternative is death which is not on MY schedule. So, Margot, you are correct; We should not complain. Thanks for the reminder. Debbie

  3. Margo, this post makes my heart happy! As a little girl, I spent a lot of time with my single, 70+ grandmother, my Nana. She is now in her mid-80s and taught me how to cherish life well. I have vivid memories of “Banana Split Birthday Parties.” I was usually the only guest under the age of 70. And what a joy it is to have her perspective on celebrating age- a gift! I am so glad that you have this perspective as well!

  4. Margie Gibbons

    With great admiration and joy, we join with you and your family in celebrating your birth, along with celebrating your courageous hurdle and fabulous milestone of your medical experiences for the past three years—truly a glorious celebration of the life generously given to us by our loving FATHER GOD! Happy Blessed Birthday dear friend!

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