My Unplanned Wedding: Part One


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[My favorite scene from “Father of the Bride,” 1991:  “Bryan McKenzie” and “Annie Banks”]

Dear Readers,

The charming 1991 film, “Father of the Bride,”  first introduced me to the concept of the Professional Event Planner:

“Franck Eggelhoffer” [pronounced “FRAHNK”] [Martin Short] and “Howard Weinstein” [B. D. Wong] were the stylish Coordinators for the Wedding Ceremony and Reception:

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But “Oh, my Kleenex!”

Even the trendy “Franck” might not have predicted the news that, twenty years later, Event Planners will stage your Engagement!

This new development in “staging” prompted me to remember August 1, 1973:  That was the day when My Future Professor and I became engaged, without the benefit of a Consultant!

We were each living and working in Tallahassee for the summer.  In the Fall, I planned to complete my Senior year at The Florida State University  and he planned to return to The University of California at Berkeley, to complete his Senior year.   We were young [21] and had never dated anyone else, since our high school days in California.

He had some doubts about his program:  He said, “It seemed as if every other student in my UCB Electrical Engineering courses had already taken the class!  I have to compete with those students for a job!”  

There was one thing about which he had no doubt:  He had predicted, when we were both 18:  “Someday we will be married”  and his resolve had never wavered.

I was not too keen on the commitment of marriage.  I had, sadly, observed only a handful of happy marriages in my lifetime.  However, my sister was married in 1970 and she and her husband seemed happy.   Besides, I could not imagine spending the rest of my life with anyone else besides my high school sweetheart.

We spent an enjoyable summer, in 1973, working and playing tennis together.  Soon, he would return to California, where 3,000 miles would separate us, once again.

The moment that would change our lives forever occurred in the most mundane of venues:  Morrison’s Cafeteria, at the Tallahassee Mall.  Sadly, the cafeteria has since disappeared:

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As we waited in the line, I was thinking about having the “Liver and Onions.”

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It was at that moment that he turned to me and said, “Well, I guess I could stay here and finish a degree at FSU and we could be married.”

I said, “Ok.” 

And that was it.  Un-staged, un-planned: no romantic setting;  no garden nook or ocean sunset; no candles, wine, flowers, or love poems — not even a ring!

And no observers or participants, unless you count the folks in line at the Cafeteria.

Just supper at Morrison’s Cafeteria, where we sat down and began to plan our wedding.

For reasons I cannot now remember, we decided that Sunday, September 2, 1973 would be our wedding day.  We had just thirty brief days to plan it . . .

Click here, to continue the story: My Unplanned Wedding: Part Two

Coram Deo,

Margot

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The Egg and I: Fuss-Free Fajitas

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Dear Readers,

“The Egg and I” is a series of blog entries, where I share easy, no-fuss ideas for food.  I can always find a way to make a recipe more simple:  Here, I do not use a grill or a skillet.  

You can learn more here:  Fajitas.

You will need the following items:

  • Crock Pock or Slow Cooker
  • Stove-top sauce pan
  • Glass measuring cup for liquids
  • Several small bowls OR a tray or dish with divided compartments.
 

This recipe serves 8:

In a Crock Pot or Slow Cooker, cook on High for one hour [or until they look “sautéed” but do not over-cook!]

1 large or 2 medium sweet onions, thinly sliced

2 large or 4 medium bell peppers, thinly sliced

1 [8 ounce] pouch Frontera Classic Fajita Skillet Sauce  [www.fronterafiesta.com]  [free of gluten and preservatives] OR

1 [1.25 ounce] package of Wick Fowler’s All-Natural Taco Seasoning Mix and 3/4 cup water  [1.25 ounce] [www.wickfowler]

Add one of the following to the Crock Pot or Slow Cooker and cook on Low for one hour [or until meat is done but do not over-cook!]

1 pound fowl, beef, or pork, sliced into 1/4 inch strips:  boneless, skin-less  chicken or trimmed skirt steak or flank or round steak or pork tenderloin

[Note: I used Orchard Pond Organics Certified Natural Angus Beef for Fajitas [free of antibiotics and added hormones; all vegetarian feed; humanely raised, on an environmental and sustainable farm:  www.orchardpondorganics.com.]  This is from a local Tallahassee farm!

Prepare the rice on the stove-top:

Tex-Mex or Spanish Rice:  I used Seeds of Change Certified Organic Cuban Style Rice with Brown Rice and Black Beans [5.6 ounces] [www.seedsofchangefoods.com]:  Follow directions on box.

After rice is cooked, add one can of black beans, including the liquid:

I used Certified Organic Westbrae Natural Vegetarian Organic Black Beans [15 ounce] [www.westbrae.com]

Assemble these toppings and spoon them into small serving bowls [with matching lids] OR into a divided container or tray:

Shredded cheese:  I used Certified Organic Valley Fancy Shredded Mexican Blend Cheese [6 ounces] [no antibiotics, synthetic hormones, or pesticides; no animal rennet.]

Sliced black olives:  I used Field Day Natural California Ripe Medium Pitted Olives [6 ounces] [www.fielddayproducts.com]

Plain “full-fat” organic Greek yogurt:  I used FAGE Total All Natural Greek Strained Yogurt, plain.  [If you use “full-fat” Greek yogurt, you will never miss the sour cream.]

Guacamole:  I used Yucatan Organic Guacamole [gluten-free]

Salsa:  I used Garden Fresh Gourmet’s Jacks’ Cantina Style All Natural Salsa

Optional:  corn, diced tomatoes, sliced and seeded jalapeno peppers, pico de gallo, shredded lettuce, diced onions.

Garnish:  fresh, sliced limes and fresh cilantro sprigs

Set out:

Warm, soft flour tortillas, large [or soft non-gluten tortillas, large]:  I used Maria & Ricardo’s Tortilla Factory White Flour Tortillas for Soft Tacos [www.Habar.com]

Each family member or each guest makes his/her own fajita!

 

Enjoy for your family, for company, or pack it up and take to a family in need:  See http://www.takethemameal.com.

Simply yours,

Margot

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The Valley of the Flowers – Part One


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Dear Readers,

You may describe the “picture postcard” memories of your childhood — but just try to compete with mine:

I spent my idyllic childhood [1958-1962] in  “The Valley of the Flowers,”   Lompoc [LAHM-poke], California.  This small town and valley boasted the title of “The Flower Seed Capital of the World.”

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The air was pure and fresh because of the ocean wind, the small population, and the absence of industrial commerce:  At that time, the region was mostly agricultural.

In addition to flowers, the region now boasts of  vineyards, which flourish in this lush, fertile, golden valley.

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After the Spanish conquered California for God and King, the Spanish Friars established 21 missions, along the coast of California.  Lompoc was the site of Mission La Purisima Concepcion, providing the source of the name of the region:  “Point Conception.”

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Mission La Purisima Concepcion

“Point Conception”  jutted out into the Pacific Ocean.  [See the red star, below].  Strong winds from the ocean were invigorating and bracing.  A protective blanket of dense fog rolled in every night and dissipated every morning.

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The cool, Mediterranean climate of the region did not offer regular seasons and the weather was unvarying.   The annual average temperature range was between 50 degrees and 70 degrees and the average rainfall was 16.11 inches.  Of course,  there was never frozen precipitation.

I remember frequently wearing a “car coat”  but that was the warmest piece of over-clothing that I owned.   Our homes did not have air conditioning because the temperature rarely rose above 70 degrees.   There was one hot spell per year, however, when the “Santa Ana Winds” rolled in from the desert.  This was our one chance to wear shorts and sleeveless tops and retrieve our window fans from storage.


 

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I live in North West Florida now.  Every summer, I grow homesick for the climate of my childhood:  I yearn, once more, to wear a car-coat in July;  to walk on the crunchy, brown sand of the beach;  to hear the crashing, booming waves of the ocean and the plaintive cry of the sea gulls;  to wade in the cold ocean water [where no one would dare to swim without a wet-suit];  to smell the scent of sea air, sea weed and kelp;  to feel the wind and sea mist on my face and in my hair; and to look up and see the protective dome of the overcast sky, which protected us from the sun.

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Surf Beach, Point Conception, CA

I long to play all day at the beach, with no sunscreen, and to return home without even the barest hint of a sunburn.


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The sweet fragrance and vibrant color of those flowers represented my ideal childhood.  I lived in a landscape filled with softly undulating hills of beauty, in orderly rows of contrasting color, as far as the eye could see.

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The tranquil beauty of the valley’s contours  provided the memories and dreams of my childhood.

The intrusive nature and shape of the events which invaded my ideal childhood is what this series of blog entries must tell.

Coram Deo,

Margot

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Introducing Gwen Stellamaris

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Gwen:  Immediately after birth.

Dear Readers,

Our third grandchild was born on May 30, 2013, at 7.41 AM.  Her name means “fair star of the sea.”

She weighed 7 pounds and 4 ounces and was 20 inches in length.  She has lots of dark hair and has milky brown eyes.  She reminds me very much of newborn Lucy.

She arrived after twelve hours of labor, at the hospital.  Daniel’s husband was the “coach” and I was the “doula.”

Mother and baby are doing very well.  Big brother, Benjamin, and big sister, Lucy, were thrilled to welcome her home.

Coram Deo,

Margot

 

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Help! I Am a First-Time Grandmother-Doula!

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“There is always room on Marmee’s lap!”

 That is what I tell my grands, anyway.

Marmee, Benjamin, and Lucy:  November 2011.


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Benjamin, born 2009, snuggling with Marmee.

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Lucy, born 2011.

Dear Grandmothers-To-Be:

Proviso: I am not a certified doula. If your daughter requires a certified doula, see the website, http://www.dona.org.

I am a grandmother and volunteer doula for my daughter.

I have experience in the hospital setting, with an attending midwife.  I have not yet assisted at a home birth.

 

IF your daughter invites you  to serve as the “doula,” please do not panic!  It is a great honor for your daughter to ask you to fulfill this role.

If she does not invite you to serve as the “doula,” please read this article:  “Dueling With the Doula.”

If you are able to remain stoic, calm, patient, quiet [and mostly invisible] during the labor and birth process, you are a good candidate to be a doula.

I am a grandmother of two, with one on the way:  I have been my daughter’s doula for the two previous births and I am currently packing my “Doula Bags” for the third birth.

I will provide you with guidance:  I will describe how I prepared for the blessed events and I will provide “Marmee’s Doula Check List.”

 

 

What Is a Doula?

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The babies in my parents’ generation were born at home.  [My parents were born 1918-1920].  In attendance at these home births was a midwife or a family doctor.   A close relative probably fulfilled the role of the doula:  perhaps a mother, mother-in-law, sister, sister-in-law, or an aunt.

During the next generation, we lost the knowledge of the assisted home birth because of the shift to the “medical model,”  when hospital births replaced home births.  This transition occurred a decade or two before I was born, in 1952.

Thankfully, today we are reclaiming the knowledge and skill of the midwife and doula.  Grandmothers are perfectly suited to step into the role of doula, in this reclamation.

Doula” is a Greek word which means, “servant:”    “Doula” is “one who serves.”

The doula’s role is to provide comfort, support, and encouragement to the mother — before, during, and after the delivery of the baby.  

The Birth Team:

The husband coaches the mother.

The midwife guides the birth process and offers medical advice, knowledge, and skill — and instructs the hospital staff.

The doula does not interfere with either of these other roles:  She assists the husband and midwife, if asked to do so.

She is responsible for offering a variety of “comfort aids” to the mother.  [More about that later.]

Travel:

If you are traveling to a different city, ask your daughter if she would like you to arrive one week before and to stay one week after the “due date.”

Making plans ahead of time is tricky:  The midwife will advise, as the due date approaches.

If possible, plan to drive instead of to fly.  You will have more flexibility and more room to transport your “comfort aids.”

The Birth Facility:

Your daughter will choose either a home birth [with midwife], a “birth cottage” [with midwife] or a hospital birthing facility [with a midwife].

It is appropriate, at any one of these settings, for the grandmother to serve as “doula.”

Before the baby is full term:  

  • Learn the route to the birthing facility.
  • Arrange a tour of the birthing facility.
  • Ask prior permission to use the kitchen, during the birthing session.
  • Arrange for authorization, if necessary:  You will need a valid driver’s license.
  • Secure a copy of the house key of the parents-to-be, in case you need to bring an item to the birthing facility.

Educational Resources:

As soon as your daughter asks you to serve as the doula, order your educational resources and begin your study.

I recommend these three resources as absolutely essential:

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DVD:  Comfort Measures for Childbirth, by Penny Simkins

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CD, DVD, and Book:  The Happiest Baby on the Block, by Harvey Karp, M. D.

The Birth Plan:

The father and mother will provide you with a copy of their Birth Plan, which the midwife will require.

Marmee’s Doula Check List:

Personal Items for the Doula:

  • toothbrush, toothpaste, mouth rinse
  • hard candies, cough drops, breath mints, gum
  • zip lock bags, thick freezer type:  small, medium, and large; black Sharpie pen [for organization]
  • toiletries
  • clean apron, with pockets
  • backpack [to transport the comfort aids]
  • fanny pack [to keep essential items at hand]
  • iPhone and re-charger
  • fresh change of undies & clothing; sweater
  • lined notebook, pen, and pencil:  to record the Birth Story

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  • shoes: clogs that are comfortable, waterproof, and washable:  Birkie Classic Clogs — http://www.birkenstock.com   — OR
  • shoes: comfortable athletic shoes, with good arch support
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Comfort Aids for the Mom:  [See Penny Simkin’s DVD for details.]

A Word About Safety:

  • Place layers of sterile towels over hot/cold comfort aides, before placing them on the mom.
  • Disinfect all surfaces and comfort aids:  before and after each birth session.  I use Seventh Generation Disinfectant Wipes.
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For Labor Positions: 

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  • *Pilates & yoga floor mat with carry bag or strap; blocks [2]; stretch bands; belt
  • a sarong  or “rebozo:”  a long piece of sturdy, woven cloth

 

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  • *ball or sphere for birthing  [also known as a  Swiss-, physio-, or exercise- ball or sphere ], extra inflating pin, “Faster Blaster Hand Pump,” and carry straps

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  • a waterproof garden kneeling cushion/knee pad [Use this as a waterproof bath pillow, for laboring in the hospital bath tub.]
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For Massage:

  • cornstarch [organic]
  • massage rollers
  • oil, organic:  without or without essential oil
  • pure cotton socks, extra-large, organic
  • three tennis balls

For Comfort: 

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  • heating pad, electric
  • rolling pin:   [Note:  www.Tupperware.com no longer sells these.  Google “Tupperware Rolling Pin” to find a “vintage” one.]
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  • two pair:  100% pure organic cotton socks, extra large, with NO elastic Spandex [You are going to place the rice inside the socks and then heat them in the microwave, at the Birthing Location.  The socks will give off a strange odor, if they contain elastic or Spandex.]
  • 4 cups of raw rice, organic:  [I used Jasmine.]
  • frozen bags of peas
  • eye pillow
  • hand-held fan:  I chose this one:  It is a Fair-Trade hand-woven fiber fan with leather handle, from Ghana. To order:  Google African fan or Ghanan fan or Ghana fan.

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Aromatherapy, if desired [ask the mom]:

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  • cotton balls for essential oil
  • squirt or “spritz” spray bottle, filled with distilled water and essential oil
  • organic 100% essential oil [let the mom choose her favorite single-source or blended oil]+
  • organic oil for massage:  grapeseed, evening primrose, or almond

Personal Care & Comfort:

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  • pillow, travel, waterproof, inflatable:  for mom to cradle her head, in the bath
  • brush, comb, stretchy head band and/or pony tail bands [to get hair off of mom’s face]
  • homeopathic Arnica Gel
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  • homeopathic  Rescue Remedy Spray by Bach
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  • emery board or nail file
  • two pair of soft knee sox [the mother’s legs may get cold]
  • lip balm [organic & for sensitive skin]
  • wash cloths: thick, dark color
  • OTC pain relief for Dad [Advil or Tylenol]
  • Sea Bands” and/or “Preg Pops,” in case mom has  nausea
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Nutrition and Hydration for Everyone:  You may need to bring a small ice chest.

A Note on Nutrition:

Since babies invariably arrive at odd hours, the hospital cafeteria may be closed, after the baby is born.  However, the new mom will be famished!

So, plan ahead and provide nutrition and hydration for her, as she will need to quickly stabilize her blood sugar, be able to sleep well, and fortify herself for nursing.

I did not plan ahead and all I could offer my daughter was two white-bread sandwiches from the all-night deli, at the hospital.  [She said that they were delicious, anyway.]

[Note: the kitchen will have cups, straws, spoons, water]

  • bottles of pure drinking water:  labeled for each person
  • “Emergen-C” powder packets:  contains electrolytes
  • organic milk and protein powder
  • nutritional bars:  meal-replacement; energy; power
  • organic snacks:  sunflower seeds, almonds, crackers & almond butter; granola bars; fruit [cut-up]
  • “Honey-Pax:” individual servings:   http://www.honeypax.com
  • sandwiches
  • “Mom’s Milk Tea” to fortify mom, for nursing

Dad & Mom May Wish to Bring From Home:

  • toiletries
  • pillows & pillow cases
  • blanket

Before the Due Date:

  • Keep your vehicle filled with plenty of fuel.
  • Go to the bank and get a quantity of single dollar bills and quarters [for parking and vending machines].
  • Pack your vehicle with everything you will need, in duffle bags, and in your back back.

Before You Leave for the Birth Facility:

  • Bring your keys, driver’s license, sunglasses, purse, cell phone & re-charger, and frozen bags of peas.

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A Friend In Need: Take a “Comfort Supper”

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Dear Readers,

I received an invaluable gift from my mother:  She modeled for me the custom of taking a meal to “a friend in need,” due to illness, a death in the family, a new baby, or  “moving day.”  On Vandenberg Air Force Base [VAFB], where my family lived for ten years, there were frequent opportunities for my mother to exercise her “gift:”   families frequently transferred in and/or transferred out.  She raised four children, during those years, but she always carved out time to help “a friend in need.”

My mother’s “go-to” entree was an Italian dish, “Talarigni,” which she served with a fresh, green salad and Italian bread.  This was a “comfort supper,” of which I have fond memories.  However, I offer here a simple and comforting menu that is gluten-free.  When you have a “friend in need,” take this “comfort supper” and be sure to pack the supper in containers which the family does not have to return!

Or, serve this menu for company.  It is a supper that all ages will enjoy!

A Comfort & Company Supper Menu:

Meatloaf

Mashed Potato Casserole

Green Peas & Pearl Onions

Kefir & Fruit

Notes:

All ingredients are from New Leaf Market, Tallahassee.  All ingredients are organic, and are local, where possible.

This menu includes all the four food groups but is not low-fat.  It is, however, relatively low-carb.  I do not include bread and dessert.

You may wish to subsitute baked sweet potatoes and steamed green beans, if you want a menu that is lower-glycemic.

Dairy products: I recommend full-fat or low-fat but never no-fat.

Legend:  C=cup; t=teaspoon; T=tablespoon]; EVOO=extra virgin olive oil]

 

Rector’s Meatloaf [“Old Faithful”] [4-6 servings]

From:  Jan Karon’s Mitford Cookbook:  A Kitchen Reader  [With modifications by Margot Blair Payne]

 

Vegetables: wash and chop:

½ C onion, sweet

1/2 C sweet pepper, red

1/2 C sweet pepper, green

Moist ingredients: Mix well together:

2-3 large eggs, beaten

8 ounces Pacific Organic Tomato & Roasted Red Pepper Soup

1 T Worchestershire sauce [non-gluten]

Seasonings and oats:  Toss together and add to liquid ingredients:

2 t. sea salt; 1 t. black pepper; ½ t. season salt

1 C uncooked rolled oats, non-gluten

In a very large bowl, add the above ingredients and mix well with the meat: 

1 pound ground round

1 pound ground turkey or chicken

Topping:

½  C Annie’s Naturals Organic Ketchup

¼ C Tropical Pepper Company Steak Sauce

Preheat oven to 350.  Coat glass casseroles with EVOO.  Press mixture into casseroles.    Bake one hour.  Remove and spread topping on top.  Return to the oven and bake for another 15 minutes.

Mashed Potato Casserole with Sour Cream and Chives: [6 servings]

1/4 C butter, softened

4 pounds Yukon Gold potatoes, unpeeled, small

2 t sea salt – divided

1 & ½ to 2 C total of dairy:  sour cream and/or Greek yogurt, plain

½ t black pepper

1 T finely chopped chives, dried

1/2 C shredded carrots [optional]

½ C fresh Parmesan cheese, grated or shredded [optional]

Oil a 9×9 glass casserole with EVOO.

In a large pot, boil the potatoes and 1 t. salt in water, until fork-tender, about 20 minutes.

Mash potatoes with butter, sour cream, 1 t. salt, and pepper. Mash in the chives.

Taste and adjust seasoning, if necessary.  Spread the potatoes into the casserole.

Heat oven to 400 degrees.

Sprinkle cheese over top.

Bake until golden and crisp, 30-40 minutes.

Steam the [frozen] Green Peas & Pearl Onions:  “Organic” is hard to find.  

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Mix in a ratio of 1:1:  plain Kefir and Kefir with fruit.  Garnish with fresh fruit.

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The Egg & I: “Green Cleaning”

Dear Readers,

How many of us have toxic cleaning solutions in our homes and garages?  

Gather all your cleaning products and read the labels!

Contact your City or County and find out where to drop off toxic products.

Now, replace all those toxic products with safe, “green” cleaning solutions.

The recipe [below] is safe and non-toxic, which is especially important for those of us who have children and grandchildren.  [Note:  Keep the kids away from the solution, anyway.]

I use this solution to clean every surface in the house:  kitchen, bathrooms, floors, and furniture.  I use it to pre-spot laundry.  However, “test first, in an inconspicuous spot.”

I keep only seven products/ingredients in my Housekeeping Closet:

  • Arm & Hammer Baking Soda [I buy this in bulk, online]
  • Bon Ami Scouring Powder [I buy this in multiples, online]
  • White [clear] distilled vinegar [I buy this in a gallon jug.]
  • AlphaChemicals.com: Anhydrous Citric Acid, 100% pure organic, food grade, non-GMO
  • SeventhGeneration.com: Natural Dish Liquid [Free and Clear]: USDA Certified BioBased Product. [I buy this via grove.com]
  • Hydrogen peroxide
  • Essential Oils: Choose a single-source oil or a blend. See www.auracacia.com and search for “Solutions:”  They offer 11 blends. You will need LEMON essential oil for the “Safe Bleach.”

 

Recipe for Homemade All-Purpose Cleaning Solution

CAUTION:  Mixing  the vinegar and the baking soda will cause a temporary volcano — so use the kitchen sink! 

You will need:

Note:  “T.” means Tablespoon.

32 ounces hot water [in a Pyrex glass measure, made in USA]

2 T.  baking soda

2 T. white [clear] distilled vinegar OR  2 T Anhydrous Citric Acid

2 T. Natural Dish Liquid

4 – 8 drops of 100% organic Essential Oil of your choice

Next Steps:

Mix all the ingredients well, until the powders dissolve.  You may have to re-heat the liquid in the microwave for a minute.  Stir well.

With a funnel, pour the liquid into two empty 32-ounce plastic bottles:  [one with a sprayer lid; one with cap lid.]

Label each bottle, with white electrical tape and black Sharpie pen.

Note:  This is a concentrated liquid.  You must dilute the solution, according to the household task.

I am merely guessing at these “solution to water” ratios.

You will need to experiment but you should not have to rinse the surface, after cleaning!  If you have to rinse, further dilute the solution.

For tough jobs:  This solution works best if you spray, soak, and wait for the solution to do its work:  For example, toilets, tubs, showers, stove top, etc.

Here are my estimates for the “solution to water” ratios but, seriously, you are own your own:  Do your own experimenting!

For bathrooms & kitchen: 1:4

For ceramic tile surfaces & floors:  1:8

For wood floors & furniture:  1:16  [Use a damp — not wet — microfiber cloth or microfiber damp mop.]

For glass & mirrors:  1:32

Laundry: Use All-Purpose Cleaner:

For pre-wash spot clean:  1:2 for whites; 1:4 for colors.

To avoid set-in stains on laundry:  Pre-spot stains, as soon as you notice them.

  • Pre-spot and scrub the item, with “All-Purpose Cleaning Solution.
  • Allow the item to sit, at least 30 minutes [or overnight.]
  • First, rinse the item in cold water.
  • Then, wash the item, in warm water, detergent, and softener.  [I use Seventh Generation.].
  • Before placing the item in the dryer, inspect the stained items.
  • If stains are still visible, repeat the steps.

Recipe for “Safe Bleach:”

1 cup hydrogen peroxide

1 cup distilled water

1 T. citric acid

12 drops lemon essential oil

Automatic Dishwasher Detergent:

My favorite is:

MethodHome.com: Method Smarty Dish Plus Dishwasher Detergent: 45 Packs, Triple Action Power, Fragrance-Free: With naturally derived, non-toxic mineral-based PowerGreen Technology. [I buy this via grove.com]

Prefer to Use a Concentrate?

SeventhGeneration.com offers a set of three concentrates. [I buy these from grove.com]

  • All Purpose Natural Cleaner
  • Glass & Surface Cleaner
  • Tub & Tile Natural Cleaner

Here’s to Better and Safer Housekeeping!

Margot

 

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